“Wow. You really, deeply loved him, didn’t you?” Those were words just spoken by a former co-worker. I was actually taken aback by how surprising and deep that statement was. I immediately thought, “why is that shocking?”. But, after a conversation, I realized that the way I loved my ex wasn’t really all that common these days. And it made… Read more →
Tag: adulting
Things That Go Through Your Head After a Breakup
Maybe the dudes have some of the same, but this is for the ladies. We’ve all been there. One minute we’re happy someone crappy is out of our life. Then, a spider shows up to obviously kill us when we’re sleeping. Hang with me, these aren’t all sad. Of course, some are. But many are funny and completely irrational too. Read more →
Dudes: Let Me Tell You How to Online Date – Part 2
Click here for Part 1 So, I’m not going to start at the beginning. But here’s a quick background on me: 31 Just got out of a long-term relationship with my best dude friend Haven’t been “single” since I was 19 Successful career Decent looking, in shape, blonde hair, big boobs Strong grasp of English language and how to… Read more →
Everything Could Use A Little Room to Breathe
When you listen to a really great piece of music – it’s those bars before the build up and crescendo take place. In art, it’s the white space or whatever isn’t the point of focus. In life, it’s those moments that are easy, free and not filled with too much excitement. These spaces of breathing room allow us to really appreciate what’s… Read more →
Recipe: Quinoa Stuffed Peppers
You guys. It turns out I really, really like quinoa. You’re probably sick of almost all my recipes including it. But, as a vegetarian, it’s a really great source of protein and it’s just so damned delicious. So, deal with it. I’ve made this for many, many people. Meat-lovers have raved that it’s just as good as their version (or better)… Read more →
Recipe: Roasted Tomato, Basil and Artichoke Soup
Last year, I had a few trips to Santa Barbara/Montecito for work. For one lunch, we went to the Montecito Wine Bistro and I ordered this incredible roasted tomato soup. I haven’t stopped talking about it since. This weekend, I discovered a beefed up version at The Sycamore in Columbus, OH (where I live). It had basil and artichokes.… Read more →
Recipe: (Self-Dubbed) Most Perfect Chocolate Chip Cookie
Hey yo ladies. Here’s what I’m going to tell you: if you don’t know how to cook by the age of 30 – learn. Fast. Do one of those Blue Apron delivery systems (or FreshBox, or Purple Carrot. Any. There are lots.) They send you the pre-measured ingredients and recipe. It’s a good start. Also, stop presenting pre-made cookies that… Read more →